3 REASONS FOR SUICIDE/ HOW TO HELP SOMEONE / AND HEALTH SECTOR ITS NOT GOOD ENOUGH MENTAL HEALTH !

The 3 reasons for suicide.

1) I am hurting so much emotionally and can not cope anymore

2) I am hurting others and am a burden on them, and feel that it would be best if I was not here.

3) I want to hurt others and inflict pain on them - want them to suffer.




People do not commit suicide without considering this is the only option,  there's thought that goes into the decision before they make it. If a person can intervene at that time and get the person who is feeling that way to listen, the important things are telling that person that they are valuable, and worthwhile, and that they are irreplaceable. That life will not be better with them not here.  Instead what would be the result would be the pain and heartache that not having them would cause their friends and family.

Even write the person a detailed letter talking about how valuable they are in your life and how much of a hole would be left in your life if they were not around to see and talk to.

Also reminding people of the things they would miss out on, and how sad that would be. If they are young that could be getting married, having a family,


Suicide is a lonely, desperate act.
It is an act that many take when they feel they have exhausted all other solutions to a problem.

A lot of the time there is an un-diagnosed, or diagnosed mental illness, and possibly depression which takes the person into such a deep dark hole that they cannot see the light, only the darkness that surrounds them they are in the fog and cannot see life for what it is.

Sometimes psychiatric medications are responsible for putting someone into such a desperate state.

Sometimes being bullied at school or at work can lead to suicide/ or suicide attempts.

Suicide can be an impulsive act but a lot of people have previous suicide attempts before succeeding in taking their lives.

Then you have the people that give no warning and its very hard to see their intentions until they are known and by that time its too late to save them from themselves.

When Mental health services see a diagnosis and not the person behind that and the sum of life experiences that put someone into that emotional mentality then there is real danger of them viewing that person in a different light and not giving them the help that they are entitled to or need at the time to stay safe.

A lot of mistakes are made by the health sector and people are not being held to account for these so called mistakes errors. Sending folk home who need more intensive crisis care and support, in hospital.. A lot of these ones go on to make suicide attempts, and even commit suicide.

They cried out for help but the mental health system did not listen, they did not prick up their ears, so in affect these ones could not keep themselves safe and go on to attempt or die.

It is so wrong to be judged and put into a box. Nobody is being held to account for the lives that are lost every week due to suicide.

Its not good Enough Mental Health!!!!!!!!