Please dont!

So if you are a parent the most important thing you should do is
Give unconditional love to your child/children

Please dont yell at your child, dont look at them with those eyes staring piercing their soul.
Please dont abandon your child/ leave her somewhere
Please dont hurt her with your words.
Please dont put her down,make her feel small,. unimportant, unloved
Please dont laugh at her,
Please dont have two parents against one - your child can not win at that, because there is a power struggle
Please dont swear at her, or curse her
Please dont say you would rather she not be born
Please dont put soap in her mouth for lying to you, or saying she hates you - you never know what scars you leave.....the image refuses to leaveher mind.....
Please dont ask her where shes going, what time she will be home./
Please dont control her
Please dont count every single coin/dollar where does it go
Please dont think everything has to be fair all the time....
Please dont think I will do something for you if you do something for me
Please dont be critical of her appearance
Please dont be critical of her home that is her space to make as she chooses
Please don't refuse to go over your mistakes of the past sometimes your daughter needs to go over these to show where she is now.
Please dont use your religion to get even more control of her
Please dont put her in a diagnosis box
Please dont tell her what she never will do
Please dont limit her choices
Please dont put her down
Please dont bring up the past.
Do not make her a subject of gest or laughter, its not nice
Please dont say her brother is better than she
Please dont throw that bowl of soup at her.
Please dont say shes ugly
Please dont say shes never going to be a mother
Please dont say you love her cousins more than her
Please dont compare me to others
Please dont see my faults - see my positives.
Please dont tell her that she will amount to nothing
Please dont hold her to account for her actions
Please dont blame her condition for how she is
Please tell me you love me
Please hug me
I dont know if you do love me
as you go on to hurt me over and over

She is who she is because of who shes been given
Shes doing the best she can do with what she has been given to work with!